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Dear Reader: Well, that was a faceplant. A tech glitch this morning meant today's PROVOKED newsletter bounced from some inboxes, sent scary security warnings to others, and broke links for the rest. Not our finest hour. If you already received and read today’s issue, thank you for putting up with the chaos—feel free to ignore this and carry on. If you never saw it or weren’t sure it was safe to open, this is the clean version we meant to send you the first time. THIS WEEK: DOG DNA · PROTEIN ·...

THIS WEEK: BOOK CLUB DRAMA · FIFTY SHADES · YOUR MONEY · COMPETENCE THURSDAY • JUNE 4• 2026 Good morning, A friend asked me last week who my target audience is. I answered fast: women over 50 who aren't done. Women like me. I'm the target audience. Right? Then I caught myself. Because "women over 50 who aren't done" is 40 million people, and I promise you they don't all want the same thing. Women aren't a monolith. Some want to be told aging is beautiful, and some want a skincare routine. A...

THIS WEEK: TOXIC POSITIVITY · TIPPING CULTURE · DESIRE · REVOLUTION THURSDAY • MAY 28• 2026 Good morning, You probably didn’t hear about Katherine Legge this past weekend. She's a 45‑year‑old professional race car driver, and on Sunday she became the sixth person in history to attempt what’s called the Double—starting both the Indianapolis 500 and the Coca‑Cola 600 on the same day. The other five were all men. She's the first woman to ever try. It went badly. She crashed at Indianapolis after...

THIS WEEK: HEELS · MAINTENANCE · INHERITANCE · AGENCY THURSDAY • MAY 21 • 2026 Good morning, I spent last Friday at a newsletter conference. Me and a few hundred newsletter bros, though I was relieved to see more women in the room than last year. I went expecting growth hacks, revenue strategies, and some subject line magic—maybe even a formula for the perfect Thursday format. Instead, I listened to the CEO of The Atlantic and the founder of 1440, both running operations vastly larger than...

THIS WEEK: BOTOX · BOOKS · SOVEREIGNTY · EMOTIONAL LOAD THURSDAY • MAY 14 • 2026 Good morning, "What does agency even mean?" a friend asked me last week. Fair question. We use the word all the time at PROVOKED. But she's right that it's not a soft word. It was born in places where agents made deals, booked flights, or wrote history. Women over 50 were rarely at the table. Here's how I think about it. Autonomy is the right to decide. Empowerment is the confidence and resources to decide....

THIS WEEK: MOTHER'S DAY • BOOK CLUB DRAMA • WEDDING SEASON THURSDAY • MAY 7 • 2026 Good morning, My grandson turned one this week. We celebrated in Central Park on a green checkered picnic blanket with friends and family. He stared at the big blue number-one candle on his very first cupcake like it was the most extraordinary thing he had ever seen. Which, at one, it might be. He's bright and wide open to the world. Watching him is pure joy. It also did something I wasn't expecting. Our call...